Dr B. Sandhyaa
In a world constantly shifting under the weight of digital chaos and fleeting trends, why does the ancient wedding of Lord Sriram and Goddess Sita still command reverence? The answer lies in the timeless emotional architecture of their bond—rooted in love, loyalty, dharma, and mutual respect. These aren’t just lofty ideals from mythology—they’re enduring values that shape how we love, lead, and live even today.
The Ramayana isn’t a relic; it’s a mirror. The story of Rama and Sita isn’t just about divine avatars—it’s about us. Their marriage isn’t a dated ritual—it’s a masterclass in commitment, tested by exile, betrayal, and war. And yet, their relationship stands resilient—marked by dignity, trust, and deep understanding. In an age where relationships often crumble under ego or convenience, their story whispers, “Hold on. Love deeper. Walk together.”
This sacred union continues to inspire creators across genres. One stunning example is Hanuman’s vision of Sita in Lanka—a moment so divine it sparked one of Carnatic music’s most beloved compositions: Thyagaraja’s “Sita Kalyana Vaibhogame.” Set in the majestic Shankarabharana raga and Jhampe tala, this devotional kirtana doesn’t just describe the wedding—it celebrates it. The lyrics overflow with emotion and reverence, turning Rama and Sita’s marriage into a living, breathing celebration of cosmic harmony.
Thyagaraja’s work is more than music; it’s spiritual storytelling. His lyrics invite listeners on an inner journey—an exploration of divine love, spiritual surrender, and human emotion. Rama isn’t just a warrior king; he’s the adhaara—the unwavering foundation of righteousness. His dark, cloud-like complexion, symbolic of emotional depth and divine mystery, reminds us that strength lies in grace, and compassion is not weakness but wisdom.
Rama and Sita’s wedding is a union not just of individuals but of ideals—Vedic and Agamic, personal and cosmic. The event is drenched in mystique: celestial beings bear witness, the atmosphere hums with divine energy, and every ritual symbolizes harmony between the mortal and the eternal. This isn’t just a wedding—it’s a blueprint of dharma in action.
It’s a reminder that marriage isn’t just about romance—it’s about shared responsibility, resilience, and righteous action. Rama confronts dura (pride) and garva (arrogance) not just with arrows but with integrity. He is the dheera—the brave, composed hero who leads by example. And in every performance of “Sita Kalyana Vaibhogame,” audiences are reminded: this is what love can look like when it’s guided by values, not vanity.
Today, when relationships are often transactional, and communication is reduced to swipes and likes, the celestial marriage of Sita and Rama is a spiritual wake-up call. It asks us to move beyond superficial connections and nurture bonds grounded in trust, devotion, and emotional intelligence. For younger generations, this story is not just mythology—it’s emotional literacy.
From street-side bhajans to grand temple processions, the re-enactment of Sita-Rama Kalyanam continues to unite communities. It transcends caste, class, and even belief systems. Artists reinterpret it, writers dissect it, musicians immortalize it. Why? Because the values it carries—love with boundaries, strength with softness, duty without dominance—are as relevant in 2025 as they were in Treta Yuga.
The celestial marriage of Lord Sriram is more than a moment in myth—it’s a recurring reminder of how sacred relationships can shape society. It asks us to reimagine love not as a fleeting feeling, but as a sacred pact rooted in mutual upliftment. And in doing so, it becomes not just a celebration of the past—but a guide for how we might live, love, and lead better in the present.
So yes—Rama and Sita’s wedding still matters. Maybe more now than ever. (The author is a former Associate Professor from Bhavan’s New Science College, Hyderabad)
